Know When to Walk Away

There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So, love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don’t. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is part of LIFE…Getting back up is LIVING -Anonymous

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09/15/2011 Positive Thought For The Day

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity – Albert Einstein

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No One is Immune to Depression

Heather Locklear’s Depression Lands Her in Jail

September 29, 2008
Heather Locklear was arrested outside the coastal city of Santa Barbara, the California Highway Patrol said on Sunday. (Photo: Santa Barbara County Sheriff's Department)
(Photo: Santa Barbara County Sheriff’s Department)

Heather Locklear, 47, who sought medical help for depression this summer, was arrested in Montecito on Saturday night. Initially suspected of driving under the influence of alcohol, she was picked up by the California Highway Patrol at 7 p.m. when someone called 911 describing her as driving like she was out of her mind.
Apparently, the actress got into her car in a Montecito parking lot on Saturday afternoon at about 4:30. She was acting strangely, repeatedly driving back and forth over a pair of sunglasses on the pavement. Tom Marshall, a spokesman for the CHP, said that she then stopped the car on the street and stumbled out into traffic. The unnamed citizen called 911 then followed Locklear out of concern for her safety. By the time the CHP arrived, Heather had parked her car on State Route 192, blocking a lane. The officer who interrogated her said that she was disoriented and “under the influence of something.”  tests at the police station showed that Heather wasn’t positive for alcohol and the drug tests would arrive in a few days.

The actress is known for her television work in roles as Sammy Jo Carrington in the soap  “Dynasty” (1980) and Amanda Woodward in “Melrose Place” (1990). She also played in the sitcom “Spin City” as Caitlin Moore. She dated Tom Cruise, Ryan Ruddy, Mark Harmon and was married to Tommy Lee from 1986 to 1993. In 1997, she gave birth to Ava Elizabeth, whose father is Richie Sambora. Locklear was treated for depression for 4 weeks until July 23, 2008. Her agent announced that she was suffering from anxiety and depression but doesn’t seem to have passed the moment.

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09/14/2011 Positive Thought for the Day

Even if you fall on your face, you’re still moving forward. – Victor Kiam

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09/12/11 Positive Thought for the Day

Everyday I do my best for one more day – Yul Brynner as the King in The King and I

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09/07/11 Positive Thought for the Day

Change your thoughts and you change your world – Norman Vincent Peale

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Depression and the Catholic Catechism

November 12, 2008 by conway23

Depression is a serious matter for Catholics, non-Catholics and everyone in between. The Catechism of the Catholic Church doesn’t specifically address depression, but it does speak to the moral virtues and spiritual practices that can keep extreme sadness and hopelessness at bay.

Depression is very real and serious.

The late Pope John Paul II addressed depression from a catholic perspective in 2003:

“The spread of depressive states has become disturbing. They reveal human, psychological and spiritual frailties which, at least in part, are induced by society. It is important to become aware of the effect on people of messages conveyed by the media which exalt consumerism, the immediate satisfaction of desires and the race for ever greater material well-being. It is necessary to propose new ways so that each person may build his or her own personality by cultivating spiritual life, the foundation of a mature existence.”

The Church understands that the mental health professionals like psychologists and psychiatrists are an important part of treating depression, but the Church stresses that there is a spiritual component to such suffering as well.

Prominent Catholic theologian and priest Fr. John Corapi reminds us that:

“One of the greatest ways to overcome emotional challenges such as depression and anxiety is to work in earnest at some productive enterprise. Feed the hungry, house the homeless, visit the sick, give encouragement to the suffering. In so doing you will begin to feel better, having concentrated on something other than your own problems.”

The Church reminds in the us that envy, which is “the sadness at the sight of another’s goods and the immoderate desire to acquire them for oneself, even unjustly,” should always be guarded against. The Catechism of the Catholic Church continues:

2540 “Envy represents a form of sadness and therefore a refusal of charity; the baptized person should struggle against it by exercising good will. Envy often comes from pride; the baptized person should train himself to live in humility:

 

Would you like to see God glorified by you? Then rejoice in your brother’s progress and you will immediately give glory to God. Because his servant could conquer envy by rejoicing in the merits of others, God will be praised.”

Jim Seghers attended a conference with Catholic priest and psychologist Fr. Benedict Groeschel, and he reported this bit of advice from Fr. Groeschel on depression:

“Fr. Benedict listed three attitudes that will lead us to wallow in depression and self-pity:

  1. Suffering and evil are everywhere; therefore everything stinks! Not so. Have confidence. God can bring good from evil. He has made a history of snatching victory from the jaws of defeat.”
  2. Continually blame yourself. Everyone makes mistakes, many times they are big ones. We need to accept responsibility and repent. Thus, David lamented: “For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me” (Ps 51:3). However, David also prayed: “The sacrifice acceptable to God is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise” (Ps 51:17). God forgives us. We must also forgive ourselves.
  3. Believe the present situation is permanent. Things will never get better. Actually things do get better.
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What should a Christian do if overwhelmed with depression?

  Depression has been called the “common cold” of mental disorders, and one source estimates that it disrupts the lives of 30 to 40 million Americans. [4]

Depression is too complicated to solve with a single pat answer. Gary Collins, in Christian Counseling: A Comprehensive Guide (Dallas: Word, 1988), lists seven major categories of causes for depression,[1] and six major approaches to treating it. Each one has multiple options within each category. In addition, people use the word “depression” to cover everything from disappointment over losing a baseball game to the terrifying gloom that drives people to suicide.

The Bible does not use the word “depression,” although it describes people whom we might call depressed. It certainly doesn’t mention antidepressant drugs. However, there are a few general principles I would recommend when trying to deal with depression:

Aim to work on the causes of your depression, not just the symptoms.

Scripture points to many issues of sin or conflict that can affect your emotions; most counselors would agree that depression can result from other underlying issues. Don’t just worry about the depression itself; check to see what other problems need attention.

Realize that you can’t base life on your emotions

Christians base life on truth, not feelings. Philippians 4:1 commands us to rejoice (whether we feel like it or not!). And James 1:2 asks us to “Consider it all joy when we fall into various trials.” Notice that James doesn’t tell us to feel joyful; he tells us to reckon, to choose to think about your situation as a spot where you can have joy.

Faith

Choosing to trust truth rather than your feelings may require a lot of faith. And if that is what we mean by asking if faith can solve depression, then faith may be enough in some cases. Trusting what God says rather than your feelings is certainly a more realistic approach to life!

Heed God’s Advice

However, many people talk about “faith” and only mean a vague hope that God will somehow pull them through. That’s too nebulous a concept to be reliable. Many of the same people who claim to have faith keep plunging through life ignoring God’s principles for healthy living. If we spurn the good advice that the Bible contains, we won’t escape the consequences – even if we have faith.

Is it right to use antidepressant drugs? Or is faith enough to solve the problem?

Chemical Imbalances

Some cases of depression may be caused by chemical imbalances. If that is the cause, then antidepressant drugs may be the answer. God has allowed mankind to learn about many medical tools, and He sometimes uses medicine to heal. There may also be some cases of depression so severe that medications are necessary to bring the sufferer to the place where they can tackle some of the other issues; such cases might require medication, at least temporarily. I know of no Scripture that forbids such use. [1]

Unresolved Issues, Root Causes

However, any medications should be used with caution. Virtually any medicine has some side effects. Drugs can mask the symptoms, allowing you to ignore root causes. Some people may use antidepressants to avoid approaches that require you to deal with other unresolved issues. It seems easier to pop a pill. A general rule of thumb is to try other strategies first, unless the depression is so severe that the person endangers themselves or finds themselves unable to participate in other therapies.

Depression is a complex area, and severe problems of depression deserve the attention of a pastor or other counselor.

Author: Dr. John Bechtle

Helpful tips for depression

More pointers for Christians...

  • Avoid being alone. Force yourself to be with people.
  • Seek help from others. (ChristianAnswers.Net can put you in contact with a Christian by e-mail. Free, private assistance is available – Go…)
  • Sing. Music can uplift your spirit as it did for King Saul (1 Samuel 16:14-23).
  • Praise and give thanks. “In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18).
  • Lean heavily on the power of God’s Word.
  • Rest confidently in the presence of God’s Spirit. “Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him For the help of His countenance” (Psalm 42:5).

See the good book Healing for Damaged Emotions for more details) [3]

Supplied by David Seamands.

References and Endnotes

  1. Eight major causes of depression. (1) Biological factors, (2) Learned helplessness (sense of being trapped and unable to remedy an intolerable situation), (3) Parental rejection, (4) Abuse, (5) Negative thinking, (6) Life stress, (7) Anger, (8) Guilt. [Josh McDowell and Bob Hostetler, Josh McDowell's Handbook on Counseling Youth (Dallas, Texas: Word Publishing, 1996), chapter 5; Gary R. Collins, Christian Counseling: A Comprehensive Guide, revised edition (Dallas, Texas: Word Publishing, 1988).] [UP]
  2. Biological factors—

    Depression often has a physical basis. At the simplest level, we know that lack of sleep, insufficient excercise, the side effects of drugs, physical illnesses, or improper diet can all creation depression. Thousands of women experience depression as part of a monthly premenstrual syndrome (PMS) and some are victimized by postpartum depression following childbirth. Other physical influences, like neurochemical malfunctioning, brain tumors, or glandular disorders, are more complicated creators of depression. There is evidence that depression runs in families and may have a genetic basis. -Gary R. Collins, Christian Counseling: A Comprehensive Guide, revised edition (Dallas, Texas: Word, 1988), p. 107. [UP]

  3. David A. Seamands, Healing for Damaged Emotions (Colorado Springs, Colorado: Chariot Victor Books, 1991) (ISBN: 0896939383).
  4. Newsweek, May 4, 1987, pp. 48-57.

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What Are You Supposed to Be?

“Be willing to surrender what you are, for what you could become”

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09/06/11 Positive Thought for the Day

If we did all the things we are capable of doing we would literally astound ourselves – Thomas Alva Edison

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